Relationships can be difficult and some need a lot of effort. Dating also takes effort but there are times that two people do click immediately. Sometimes, daters get into patterns that they never see until they reach a breaking point in their relationship and they repeat the same mistakes. 

For those who wondering why their Canberra escorts like them, and why some of their dates reject them, it is a good idea to take a closer look at three things you never imagined about dating, which are: 

Love At First Sight Is Real

The chemical reaction that occurs in your brain when someone catches your eye is what makes this phenomenon real. You can’t control it, even if you don’t like the person who catches your eye at first glance. 

It doesn’t mean that you will be attracted to them forever. It just means that there was something about this person that drew you in on an unconscious level and made them stand out from everyone else around them.

Love at first sight can happen with anyone. In fact, some studies have shown that people tend to fall more quickly for those who are less similar than themselves. But if there’s no chemistry between two individuals right off the bat then chances are good there won’t ever be any sparks between them either later down the road.

Our Preferences 

We are genetically hardwired to click with some people and not others. The fact that you click with some people and not others is a result of genetics. Your genes are hardwired to like certain things, and this can be seen in the way people find others attractive.

We’re also hardwired to have a preference for certain kinds of bodies, faces and personalities. It’s easy to forget this when you’re focused on looking for love. Study your dating history, and there are some patterns that emerge. 

You may be drawn to tall guys or short girls, or quiet types who keep themselves to themselves or outgoing extroverts who never stop talking. Most likely these preferences will extend beyond just looks. Maybe you like funny people with good senses of humor or perhaps crucial that your partner has similar interests.

Attraction Can Happen Instantly 

Sometimes, you just know right away that you like someone. You can feel a connection with them, and sparks fly between the two of you. You might even feel like they are the one for you and a dream come true.  

This is especially true if it’s your first time meeting that person. In this case, there’s no use in trying to deny it or fight against your feelings. Instead, just go with the flow and enjoy being in love.

In Conclusion

Attraction is all about chemistry. We are attracted to the same type of person, be it physically or by their actions. Love at first sight is real, and people do click for a reason, so if your date doesn’t work out, just take it in stride and move on.